Sessions

Why?
There are a variety of reasons why you may choose to come and see me. For example you may want to feel more connected to your body, have more sensual and sexual pleasure, create more fulfilling relationships, or to discover deeper meaning in your life. It can be that you are currently going through a big transition. There could be many reasons why you may feel some sessions may be supportive at this point in your life.

Benefit?
When we realise and actualise choice we can feel a greater sense of self-empowerment. Creating space for our body, breath and feeling capacity can lead to a healthier, more sensual life. By becoming more present to our needs and desires, we can be inspired to live the change we seek in the world.

I invite you to….

• come with an open heart and sense of curiosity
• be willing to be present and patient with yourself
• trust in the wisdom within you
• actively engage with the change you desire

I commit to…

• creating a safe space
• confidentiality
• listening without judgement
• offer tools and techniques in accordance with your wishes

If you are stirred, but unsure, or conversely very sure what you want and wonder if I may be able to support you, why not drop me a line by email or phone now. We can arrange a free fifteen minute chat to see how to move forward.

"Julia is a delight. I have had a number of one-2-one sessions with her over the recent months to help me through a difficult time in my life.  Each session has been totally different.  Because of all the experience and knowledge that she has in her ‘Mary Poppins’s bag’ (as I like to think of it – because it seems endless), she is able to adapt very quickly to your needs.  She has a warmth and tenderness which is all wrapped up very nicely by a beautiful spirit.  She is very special.  Thank you Julia."  

Helen Smith, Brighton.

Why?

There can be many reasons why you may chose to come to couples sessions. It may be that you agree you want deeper connection at this time, maybe life got busy at the expense of your intimacy? Perhaps you’re curious to know what Tantra may hold for you, but prefer not to dive into a workshop setting. Maybe you’ve heard of The Wheel of Consent and want to discover more around giving and receiving at a deep level. Maybe you’re struggling right now and feel getting a fresh perspective on the situation could be useful? Whatever the reason there are numerous new experiences you could have if you are ready for the adventure. It could spice-up, or even safe your relationship!

Benefit?

It can really help sometimes to have a non-judgemental, third party to witness and support your relationship. I may be able to invite you to see a perspective you’ve been yearning for. New tools can offer support, learning, fun and pleasure which can re-kindle or save a relationship which has lost it’s zest. This is a special time and space where the two of you make to really honour your couple, this alone can result in a radical shift in intimacy. 

I invite you to…

• come with an open heart and sense of curiosity

• be willing to be present and patient with each other

• trust in the wisdom within you

• actively engage with the change you desire

I commit to…

• creating a safe space

• confidentiality

• listening without judgement

• offer tools and techniques in accordance with both your wishes

If you are stirred, but unsure, or conversely very sure what you want and wonder if I may be able to support you, why not drop me a line by email or phone now. We can arrange a free fifteen minute chat to see how to move forward.

"My partner Kate and I thoroughly enjoyed ourselves throughout the private couples session. Julia created a lovely relaxed environment for us to feel completely comfortable, while she clearly explained various Tantra exercises that we have continued to practice regularly at home on our way. This has helped us gain a much deeper connection and as a result improved our sex life tremendously! I would definitely recommend Julia's sessions to any couple who are looking to take their relationship to a higher place, trust me you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!" 

Steve, age 32. Sussex. 

Personal boundaries will be discussed at the start of the session. You may wish to be partially or fully naked. In tantra we want to honour the whole person, and the whole body is seen as equal, and all deserving healthy touch. All of the body has the possibility to feel alive, sensuous and erotic. Sexual energy is the energy of life!

I have been on my own Tantric journey, since 2005. I have also run workshops and sessions in Tantra and intimacy since 2010. Tantra brought many gifts of inviting me to accept myself, to reclaim parts of myself I had turned away from, or disowned. This is particularly true of my sensuality and sexuality which now feels more natural and joyous to me than before Tantra.

The particular massage I work with in Brighton is the Taoist style Tantric massage. This provides a truly Tantric journey combining a range of touch from light erotic touch to deeper invigorating strokes. The whole sequence works not only on the physical body, but on the energy channels which can create a powerful opening in body and spirit. Behind the ethos of this Tantric massage is the idea of the “no mind” state. When both the giver and receiver enter into a state of in-the-moment presence it’s possible for the receiver to experience a deep state of bliss and profound pleasure. I love to provide this container for you to experience this expansion and pleasure. By the end of this journey the receiver is often in a state beyond words, feeling deeply relaxed, satiated and in a state of joyful aliveness.

“This is the tantric definition of our sexuality: the return to absolute innocence, absolute oneness. The greatest sexual thrill of all is not a search for thrills, but a silent waiting – utterly relaxed, utterly mindless. One is conscious, conscious only of being conscious. One is consciousness. One is contented but there is no content to it. And then there is great beauty, great benediction”. OSHO.

Most of us grow up with some sense of sexual shame. This can cause us to feel negative towards ourselves, and create difficulty in relationship. Tantra says sexuality is the base of all our life-force. We are all born from sexuality. Until we feel liberated and happy in our sexuality, we will always be holding back, and unfulfilled. What are you doing to support the joy of your sexuality? I’d be very happy to support you moving into greater acceptance and pleasure in your body. Come and see me if you’d like to go on this fulfilling journey.

Here is a full quote from one of my clients:

"I felt at once at ease and in experienced hands and Julia's professional training as an acupuncturist underpins a deep awareness of subtle energies.

I had just come through a period of illness and personal turmoil and found that these things quickly receded into another place as I sunk into the journey. The massage went through a number of levels, making me feel re-acquainted with a sometimes neglected physical body and it's sensations.

At one point I fell into a deep sleep state and woke up feeling "on the other side" where infinite possibilities dwell.

Julia's healing made me feel complete instead of scattered and back into my core.

She brought me back gently to the "real" world afterwards and let me stay in that floating state for a time before I had to leave the warm cocoon in front of the fire.

I carried that peace and calm with me for the rest of the day and it feels like a place I can tap back into again after this blissful reminder.

It was a reminder too of the oceanic and subtle sensations that you can take away to share with a partner and a glowing warmth that you can share with the people you love."

Mark, Mental Health Professional